The Danger of Perfectionism in Liberation Work: Why Messiness is the Path to Progress
In liberation work, the desire to “get it right” can often become the very thing that holds us back. Perfectionism—a key pillar of supremacy culture—has long been a tool for maintaining control, creating impossible standards that prevent authentic connection, growth, and change.
But if liberation is the goal, then embracing imperfection is the practice.
Today, I want to share why messiness, mistakes, and vulnerability are crucial for the work we’re doing, and why we need to dismantle the perfectionist mindset within ourselves and our communities.
Key Takeaways from today:
1️⃣ Embracing Messiness and Imperfection
Perfectionism, a key pillar of supremacy culture, stifles creativity, growth, and authentic relationships. Embracing imperfection and messiness allows us to build deeper trust, create lasting change, and foster vulnerability.
Example: Allowing space for honest conversations and imperfection in community spaces creates a culture of growth and resilience.
Reflection: How can you give yourself permission to be imperfect in your activism and community work?
2️⃣ Navigating Power Dynamics in Activist Spaces
Recognizing power dynamics within activist and community spaces is crucial to building inclusive environments. When those who have historically been marginalized gain power, there must be humility and discernment in how it is used.
Example: Acknowledging the role of Black women and other marginalized voices in leadership and ensuring their experiences guide the work.
Reflection: Where do you see power dynamics impacting your ability to collaborate or lead?
3️⃣ Challenging Perfectionism for Collective Growth
Perfectionism and individualism hinder collective progress. Community building thrives on open feedback, learning from mistakes, and prioritizing collective healing over individual success.
