Welcome to Day 23 of 100 Days of Community! Today, we’re diving into one of the most crucial yet misunderstood elements of sustainable activism and community care—boundaries.
Too often, we associate boundaries with separation or selfishness, but in reality, boundaries are the foundation of sustainability, clarity, and accountability in community work. Without them, we burn out, relationships deteriorate, and harm persists.
So, let’s talk about what boundaries actually are, how they function in community spaces, and why they protect not just individuals but the collective itself.
Lessons & Community Input
Today's discussion was full of real-world applications and lived experiences around boundaries. Some major insights:
✅ Boundaries protect energy & sustainability—Without them, we risk burnout and depletion.
✅ Boundaries create clarity & reduce harm—Clearly defined roles prevent miscommunication and overcommitment.
✅ Boundaries foster collective accountability—Communities thrive when boundaries uphold shared agreements.
✅ “No” is a complete sentence—We don’t owe explanations for prioritizing ourselves.
✅ Boundaries require enforcement—They’re not just statements; they must be acted upon.
I also shared a personal story about dealing with a boundary-violating neighbor and how I resolved it without unnecessary confrontation—but with firm, decisive action. Boundaries, at their core, are about defining what we will and will not allow in our spaces.
Now let us move into the 3 key takeaways
