Absolutely - alignment IS what’s needed. Totally connect with the control v. trust concept.
I once called a friend because I was extremely frustrated with trying to communicate with a mutual acquaintance. I was frustrated and said, “I just can’t win with her.” My friend asked me, “Why do you have to win?” I couldn’t even reply for a bit.
Your article brought that convo back for me. I felt like winning = control. But controlling the situation/conversation wasn’t what I really needed.
I appreciate your thinking and your writing. I often come back to your articles because I feel like I’m growing through them. Thank you!
My, my, my…(shaking my head). This is exactly where I am. I can’t say anything else. You said it all. Thank you so much…🙏🏽
Honestly thank you for affirming me in this way! It just reminds me that alignment is what’s needed 💗
Absolutely - alignment IS what’s needed. Totally connect with the control v. trust concept.
I once called a friend because I was extremely frustrated with trying to communicate with a mutual acquaintance. I was frustrated and said, “I just can’t win with her.” My friend asked me, “Why do you have to win?” I couldn’t even reply for a bit.
Your article brought that convo back for me. I felt like winning = control. But controlling the situation/conversation wasn’t what I really needed.
I appreciate your thinking and your writing. I often come back to your articles because I feel like I’m growing through them. Thank you!